Fear is our friend but it doesn’t usually feel that way. It informs us of the undesirable and painful possibilities our choices might bring so we can make a safe decision. It is one of the many voices within us and can be the loudest. The problem is that we Read more…
Your willingness to allow yourself to be vulnerable is directly related to your ability to manifest what you want in this life. We build walls to avoid pain, we avoid doing that new thing because we somehow think we should have mastered it before we even try, and we stuff Read more…
No matter how great your childhood, how loving your parents were, or how supportive your village was, you were molded with fear and shame that needs un-learning. Maybe mom was always trying new diets and dad learned that showing emotion is not manly. They feared for you, not wanting you Read more…
Even the most wonderful changes can evoke fear within us. We find ourselves full of self doubt and uncertainty, we imagine all the things that can go wrong. Of course the more difficult changes send us far deeper into that state of fear, compounded by things like depression and grief. Read more…
It’s time to get out of your head and take that leap! You’ve been going back and forth in your head, unable to decide on an action and fear is trying to dominate the conversation. Of course there is no certainty, some things will go wrong and some things will Read more…
I think we’re all familiar with self-doubt. It rears its ugly head when we decide to try something new and hits us hardest in our most difficult times, spilling into other areas of our lives where me might normally feel confident. While it may be healthy to assess your strengths Read more…
Sometimes when we try to take a reasonable approach to a passionate or emotional circumstance, we are not acting out of reason at all, we are acting out of fear. We withhold ourselves from our passions instead of pursuing them with healthy boundaries. I think this is most commonly displayed Read more…
The drawing of this card in the reversed position indicates you’ve been hovering around the doorway to something new but have been putting off actually walking through that door. The problem is, the longer you look at that door without entering, the bigger your fears and doubts become. It’s time Read more…
You know what needs to be done and you are being urged to stand up for yourself or others. Of course it will not be easy. You may be afraid of how others will see you, or that you might stand alone. You may fear consequences of some sort but Read more…
You don’t have to be an empath to be disturbed by the energies of those around you. Most of us have known or met people who suck the happy right out of us with their constant negativity or silence us with their anger. We’re also bombarded with media that thrives Read more…