Spiritual and practical guidance for the week ahead, or whenever you happen to see this 🙂
Today’s Message From the Universe is all about Finding Joy in Hard Times by empowering yourself, standing your ground, and discovering the healing power of community support.
Don’t Let Fear Rule You
Being a good person does not mean you have to let people walk all over you. Tough times don’t last forever, but they can last a while, so you probably shouldn’t wait to say the important thing or find ways to improve what you can about your circumstances.
As with most things, your perspective and actions will be your most helpful improvements. So first of all, do what you can to help yourself stay calm, and use your tools! Panic and overthinking will only make it worse; I’m speaking from experience here, lol!
Tired of Waiting / Running on Empty
This isn’t a new thing; in fact, it’s getting old, and you’re probably getting pretty sick of it by now. Sick of people who do shitty things, maybe a shitty financial situation, your feeling of helplessness, maybe even feeling useless? Tired of working yourself to exhaustion, wondering, wishing, waiting, whywhenwtf?
There’s a quote in Audaz’s description that really stuck out to me:
“She holds no love for violence but neither will she allow fear to rule her.”
I have felt that keenly these days, in many ways, for many reasons, and I think many of you have as well. It’s not because you’re not afraid but because you’re tired of being afraid, maybe feeling like you’ve been running full speed at something that seems to keep getting further away.
You’ve simply had enough.
There was a time in my life when that phrase, “I’ve had enough,” had a much darker tone. It was synonymous with wanting to give up, being too soul-tired to go on. But they don’t get to win.
Today, it means “NOPE! Fuck right off with that, sir :)”
I don’t care who you are. I will open my big, fat mouth. I will take up all sorts of space. I will stand up for myself and my fellow humans, and I will bite your ankles if need be!
But wait, there’s more!
Good Tools for the Bad Days
You can find things to be incredibly grateful for even on the most difficult of days – and those are the most important days to find them! Healthy relationships and conversations with others are the key to literally EVERYTHING that needs healing in us and our planet. Also, there are a zillion ways to create, and any of them can do your brain and heartspace a whole lotta good, even if you’re not so great at them!
Get Creative When Money Is Tight
If you’re struggling financially, you are being advised to get creative and lean into your community.
- Don’t let pride get in the way of asking for a little help; we all need help from time to time – all of us!
- You might think about getting a roommate or even decide that having a home on wheels might be better than paying for a home and wheels.
- You can start doing weekly family-style or potluck dinners with friends or neighbors.
- Look into things like places, events, and communities for bartering goods and services, such as online Buy Nothing groups and swap meets.
Take the Next Best Step
Obviously, these are only a few suggestions, and it’s all easier said than done, especially at first. Practice is truly helpful here, though! Once you start drawing boundaries, creating healthy coping tools, or seeking creative solutions, it becomes easier for you to continue to do so.
Sometimes there’s not a big move you can make, just little things that keep you going through each day and baby steps towards the bigger things. Other times, there might be some big moves, but you’ve got to think outside the box a little – and regularly!
We’re sort of given this recipe for how to make a good life, but are often given completely different ingredients to work with. Your ingredients and perfect recipe will change and grow with you. Just keep taking the next best step 💙
Today’s crystals, decks, etc., will bring you to that item in my shop, while the music links will bring you to YouTube. Of course, stock status is only guaranteed at the time of publishing.
Today’s Crystals
Rose Quartz IN STOCK
Green Fluorite IN STOCK
Chrysocolla IN STOCK
Jade IN STOCK
Shiva Lingam IN STOCK
Today’s Deck
Elle Qui Oracle by Melanie Delon & Arwen Lynch-Poe IN STOCK
Check Out This Deck
The Witching Hour Oracle by Cherie Gerhardt IN STOCK
You Might Love This 😍
Grounded Flow Indian Agate, Hematite, & Labradorite Earrings IN STOCK
ICYMI
I’m A Hot Mess, Here’s Why And What’s Up!
Life Is a Dance! ~ A Message From the Universe
Finding Peace During Chaotic Times ~ A Message From The Universe
Today’s Music
*Warning: I love a variety of music, so I often share explicit and/or “low vibe” music. What gets me pumped might not do the same for you 🙂
Ritt Momney, Put Your Records On
Billie Eilish ft Justin Bieber, Bad Guy
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I do have days like this!
Thank you, Melissa! Hopefully they are few and far between 💙
Thank you, my friend!! I think our badassery is needed to protect and grow all the fluffy stuff 🙂
Yes!! Totally one with you in all this. I often need a little more badass in with my empath.