You don’t have to believe in fate or destiny to understand that there are things beyond our control.

This is your reminder to stop banging your head against the wall. You cannot control the behaviors of others, and often you don’t have the control of your own circumstances that you would like. You only have the ability to control your response.

Make a point to understand just how much control you don’t have and give it to the universe. Seek acceptance and better for yourself in any way you can. Pour your efforts into that rather than wishing something or someone outside of your control was different. Sometimes it has to be all about you and your healing. When you focus on yourself you give a great gift to others by showing them what is possible and how to best respond to difficult circumstances.

When you give your power and attention to the positive it attracts more of the positive to you, this is the same for the negative. It’s your choice, so choose wisely.