Not Everything Happens for a Reason – Daily Message for the Collective

I’m not going to tell you that everything happens for the best or everything happens for a reason.

Sometimes there really is a blessing in disguise but sometimes it’s just a shitty situation. The “why” of it may be important if the circumstances are brought about by your own habits and patterns but there is rarely an answer to that question when the circumstances are brought on by something out of your control.

Today’s message is about accepting things for what they are and giving up your need to try to control that which you have no control over. This frees you to heal from it and focus on the things which you are able to control. It allows you to make the best of what you’re left with instead of being stuck in the worst of it.

One of our biggest control issues happens to be other people. We fight so hard to keep someone who does not want to be kept, we hang our closure on apologies that will never come, we try to coerce or pressure our loved ones out of unsafe habits.

You cannot change anybody, you can only figure out your own best course of action which has very little to do with them.

So what is your best course of action? Maybe it’s cutting people off or giving them less of your energy and brain space, maybe it’s stepping out into a new direction, maybe you use it to help others through what you’ve been through.

Not everything happens for a reason but you can create meaning and reason for anything.

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A Message from the Universe – The Soul Walks Upon All Paths

Your journey to healing and self-discovery will not be like anyone else’s.

Sure, you may find some commonalities with the paths of others and you can learn a lot from them but ultimately the things you learn from all others are only a starting point. Their knowledge helps you to determine what works for you and what doesn’t.

It gives you a guideline rather than an actual map.

I have a few clients who are going through an awakening of some sort. They want to know what to expect and when to expect it but it doesn’t work that way. Each of them has experienced life in their own way and has different things and levels of things to learn and unlearn.

The same goes for healing or learning how to cope with our difficulties. I can tell you that things like journaling have been pivotal in my healing throughout my life but that doesn’t mean it will help you. All you can do is give it a fair shot and be receptive to all the things that have helped others.

You will find a combo that works for you and likely create your own mechanisms along the way.

This also applies quite heavily to our religions and belief systems. Those who check the “other” box when it comes to religion have been steadily increasing over the years. We’re beginning to understand that if there is a god, they don’t fit into the boxes we try to create for them.

Religion is only man’s interpretation of that which he is unable to understand.

Besides that, our religions have been used to control societies and shed blood at least as much as they’re used to connect with spirit. Of course we would seek our truth elsewhere and my truth will not be your truth. Neither does my truth negate the truth of those who find solace in their religion.

Our truth, in this sense, is only the interpretation of the unseen influences in our lives.

Whatever journey you’re on and wherever you may be on that journey, understand that it will not align with anyone else’s. If you find something that’s helpful to you don’t be afraid to eliminate what doesn’t resonate and if you learn something that is not helpful don’t forget to see if there’s any pieces that might fit anyway.

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